Father support system

      Father is a support system                             Think about this it's a nice and sunny day and a dad is outside of his home with his daughter taking off the training wheels of her bike now let's call her Lisa, is real scare and excited about this new found freedom she is about to experience. Now just the night before the dad Johnny is the name let's say was giving Lisa words of encouragement through the power of a affirmation as well as telling her about fear, as false evidence appearing real, and when she falls because she will ,that's not a major failure because you fell off the bike. Now the true test comes will you stay on the ground and give up, or will dust yourself back off and rise. Just know when you get back up you are one step closer to your goal, one or two more steps away  towards your success.  So the day has arrived ,and it was time to put the pedal to the metal. Lisa with joy shining upon her face, hop on to the bike saying out loud I am a good bike rider I am a good bike rider if I fall I will get right back up and do it all over again because I am a winner,  everybody hands go up. Now dad was nervous but he knew he had to allow his daughter the freedom to learn, fail, get back up and repeat the process all over again, but in the midst of his thinking Lisa spoke out loud I got this dad you can let go now, and she was off. The trill of the ride, the wind blowing her hair, the excitement riding her bike without no training wheels and bam she quickly  falls to the ground. Dad with the look of worried on his face rushes to aid his little princess Lisa who is  merely laughing at herself. She quickly gets back up off the ground dust herself off and files past daddy before she hits the brakes now it doesn't matter how many times she felt off the bike what matters was the ability to get back up because of that strong support system in her father. Now this is in no way shape or form taking nothing  away from mothers but father's from over thousands of years have given that support system to there kids and that act has made great men and women of our past and present as well as our near future. Fathers give there sons identity and there daughters a sense of self worth. This solid support system helps people to become resilient in the face of crisis. Victors not victims that's why father's are so important in the develop of a child because they can give there offspring guidance,understanding and a great support system.                                        Jeffery J Alexander is an author of two books Xavier the brave little crab and letters wisdom and quotes about my younger self on amazon and future book Xavier ABC words have Power book