Father

 Family talk Friday episode 2                                 what is a father, he could be a hero to many or a cool dad to plenty. while others call him the embarrassing chosen one when it comes to his dancing skills because he thinks he still got it reliving his Glory days. Danger sign warning to some men a father could be a judge Jury and executioner, whenever a young man comes over to introduces himself to a strict dad who don't play around when it comes to his girls. They're over millions and millions of definitions of what a father is or isn't. We can go on and on but for now, here's is my take of what a father is from my stand point. A father is a high ranking position that should be treated with great importance ,yes with great powers comes even greater responsibility. A position of the father is a teacher, life coach, motivational speaker, spiritual counselor, peaceful warrior, educational advisor, wisdom leader, mentor,great dancer lol, comedian, disciplinary, dream visionary, farmer, affirmation specialist, emotional intelligence instructor, conflict resolution drill sergeant, time well spent partner, helping hand teammate, adversity weather man, question everything lawyer especially when it comes down to your friends show me your friends and I  will show you your future, bookworm mascot, sense of self-doctor, morals values and principles chief, lastly a proud dad aka proud father. This position we call father, requires us to where many hats all while speaking life with his words displaying love and compassion with our actions and creating an loving safe  environment where our child can excel at  while instilling honor gratitude and empathy within his son and daughter Fatherhood a never ending job some days we have to be like  Captain America and others days the dark Knight himself. One thing for sure we can all agree on, this position we call father we wouldn't trade this thing in for nothing in the world because it's an  honor and privilege to wear this badge with a smile I. AM. F. A. T. H. E. R.                                                                                                                                                  J J Alexander is a Father, husband , mentor children's book author and blogger